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Online Divorces – Legal Advice Is Recommended

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The document known by many as the ‘Petition’ has been re-named ‘Divorce Application’ and the contents overhauled in an effort to make the application process more user-friendly for litigants in person – invariably those who cannot afford to instruct a solicitor to oversee the divorce process for them.

The system is supposed to become even more user-friendly by digitalising the Application online, with the first online divorces currently being trialled, in an effort to modernise the process and bring it into the 21st century.

There is no doubt about it; the only way to look is to the future and, with the growing number of litigants in person due to economic changes, and the virtual scrapping of legal aid in private family law, it is safe to assume that those numbers are set only to rise.

A word to the wise, however.

On the whole, a reasonably minded lay-person might find the divorce process one which they can master and see through to the end with minimal legal advice – maybe following an initial appointment to provide that helpful initial advice and assistance. The legal world of ‘financial remedy’ (‘ancillary relief’ as it once was) however should not be viewed in the same way. Indeed, it could be costly to do so and legal advice still comes highly recommended.

Family law is complex. It is built upon a foundation of a 45-year-old statute, and a web of case law follows which adds meat to the bones of what lawyers know as the ‘section 25’ considerations of the court. This case law is evolving and a good family lawyer will help you to reach a resolution that properly interprets the law to your case, and reaches a suitable resolution in the interests of you and the children involved.

As Resolution lawyers at Onions & Davies, we are committed to a constructive approach intent on keeping things amicable. We know that the clients who come to us want the best result for themselves and their children, knowing also that they will probably have to continue a parenting relationship with their ex-spouse for a long time after the finances are settled and they have their Decree Absolute.

Watch this space for more information about online divorces as the trial runs out. For advice and assistance about your marital breakdown and the best way forward for you, call Sharon on 01630 652405 for an appointment with family solicitor David Lago.

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Relationship breakdown – when should I take legal advice?

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Going to see a family solicitor about a relationship breakdown can seem to some to be a very serious step. On the one hand, you may feel that you need to know ‘where I stand’, and on the other, you may worry about taking advice too early or too late in the day.

There is no right or wrong answer as to when is the right time for you to take legal advice. Every case is different. Every relationship is different. Much of this will focus on when the time feels right for you, and once you have decided to take advice, we can usually arrange for you to come in and see one of our specialist family law solicitors, within a few days.

Louise Martin, Head of Family, appreciates that a relationship breakdown can be a confusing and worrying time for some people. She has put together a brief guide on when seeing a solicitor would be a sensible thing to consider, and what the client might expect from the process.

  • Do either of you consider that the relationship is salvageable?

It is often sadly the case that, when a relationship breaks down, one party has come to the decision to end things before the other may have even realised that something was gravely amiss.

A relationship breakdown is akin to a bereavement and sometimes a person’s ability to deal with matters will depend on where they are on the ‘grief cycle’ compared to the other, and whether they have or have not accepted that the relationship has broken down irretrievably.

It can therefore be a tough exercise to take legal advice when it may be relationship advice that you feel you need. The question therefore to ask yourself before you make an appointment is ‘is there any prospect of reconciliation?’ If the answer is yes, then it might be best for you to consider getting advice and support from a counsellor as the first step.

If it appears that there is no or only a limited chance of reconciliation – you may have been the one to end things, or maybe the other party has already taken legal advice, or moved out of the property, or they may even be pursuing a relationship with a third party – then taking legal advice is recommended at this stage.

You may then wish to talk to an expert family solicitor about what happens next, both in the short-term and the long-term, and gain reassurance about the path forward. At our initial consultation with you, we will provide you with advice about your particular situation and put together a plan of action to achieve a fair resolution.

Following an initial consultation, the pace of the matter is up to the parties, and we can progress the case as quickly or as slowly as is required. There is also no obligation to return for further advice and assistance, after the initial appointment.

Further details about accessing information and support can be found at http://www.resolution.org.uk/information/

  • Are there children involved?

Sometimes it can be issues surrounding where the children shall live, and with which parent they should spend time, that causes anxiety and worry in the early days. Both parties may want the children to stay with them, or there may be difficulties in agreeing contact arrangements for one parent, particularly if there is a degree of parental hostility.

It is recommended that legal advice be sought as soon as possible, so that a family solicitor can advise on where the emphasis should lie, and to ensure that any safeguarding issues are addressed.

Just taking this initial advice may well reassure parents and give them the confidence to seek to resolve the issues directly with the other parent, or perhaps even seek assistance with doing so in a family mediation setting. We can refer you to family mediation if this is of interest.

At Onions & Davies, we pride ourselves on taking a conciliatory approach to children matters, and looking at the case from both a legal and pragmatic perspective, to ensure that the best and earliest resolution can be reached in the interests of the children involved.

  • Are their domestic abuse issues?

It is widely recognised today, due to awareness and changes in legislation, that domestic abuse comes in many forms. It may be physical and/or sexual abuse, but it may also be a product of controlling and coercive behaviour, and manifest as emotional and/or financial abuse.

Many victims of abuse understandably find it difficult to seek help as a result of the fear and control exerted over them by their partners. It is recommended, however, that help should be sought at the first opportunity and we can ensure that the advice we provide is entirely confidential. We can provide legal advice as to the remedies available from the family court to protect against such behaviour.

  • Are there money issues?

We appreciate that not all of our clients have savings and cash in excess of their monthly expenditure. Indeed, it is more common to be dealing with a family of modest means, in which case, the prospect of splitting one household into two households can be daunting.

Clients may need initial advice to discuss these more immediate issues: who is going to pay the mortgage; who will be responsible for the household bills; what about the financial needs of the children; should I contact the Child Maintenance Service; etc. These matters can be addressed at an initial appointment, and clients who need help sorting through these issues, ought not to delay in taking legal advice.

  • Does only one of you own the family home?

The non-owning party may feel at a disadvantage when a relationship ends, if the house is registered in the sole name of the other person and, in this situation, a family solicitor can advise as to the implications for both parties.

If you are married, then there is immediate action that we can take on your behalf to protect your Marital Home Rights, which should reassure the non-owning party that the other cannot dispose of the asset without recognising their interest.

If you are not married, then we can provide advice as to any action the non-owning party might seek to bring to recognise an interest they claim to have in the property.

  • Are there court proceedings in place or on the horizon?

Do not delay in seeking legal advice if you have been served, or consider that you are about to be served, with court papers.

If these are divorce papers, then there may be a prospect of reaching agreement as to certain matters with your spouse or their solicitors before the papers are sent to court, if early advice is received. The court will also require a response from you as the “Respondent”, and we can assist with this.

If these are financial remedy papers or issues to do with the children, then there may be the prospect of negotiating out of court, or maybe at family mediation. The court will also list the matter for a hearing, if papers have been issued, which means early legal advice, and an assurance that your interests will be represented at that hearing, should be sought.

Louise Martin and David Lago are both members of Resolution: First for Family Law, which follows a code of practice that promotes a constructive approach to family issues. For further details, see http://www.resolution.org.uk/code/

Call our Family Legal Secretary, Sharon Moore, to arrange an appointment with David Lago, on 01630 652405. Our initial consultations are fixed-fee, no obligation and completely confidential.

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January 8th: The Most Popular Day to Start Divorce Proceedings?

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It is a sad fact of every divorce lawyer’s job to expect a flurry of enquiries and appointments each year after the festive period. This is not a time for lawyers to ‘cash in’ on other’s misfortune. A good family lawyer will know that the breakdown of a relationship at any time of year can be an extremely upsetting time for families.

The festive period can often be the point where relationship issues reach their peak because of the expectation, promise and stress that Christmas time can bring. Families spend intense periods of time together. Often what should be a celebration can end in adversity.

Our Family department is prepared to help. The skill sets of our family solicitors are a valuable resource to clients at this time. We know that clients who come to us may feel uncertain, upset and confused. We offer sensible and practical legal advice and the options available.

It may be that relationship advice or family mediation is what is needed and we have the tools to signpost you to appropriate third parties who can help. One of the UK’s most recognisable relationship charities, Relate, has reported a significant increase in enquires in January and have recently tweeted about the issue.

Divorce is never a decision we encourage our clients to take lightly. A relationship breakdown can raise many more issues than whether to divorce, including finances and children issues. Clients might want to know whether one of them should move out of the family home. How the mortgage and other bills will be met. These may be more of a priority for them to consider initially. Clients might be worried about the impact of any separation on their children. With whom will the children live? When will the children spend time with the non-resident parent? Often these issues give rise to other concerns such as access to the home, the ability of the parties to communicate to make decisions together for their children and perhaps their home and finances.

Sometimes, what a client needs at that initial appointment is a friendly, knowledgeable ear to listen and advise with complete confidence, to their situation. Thereafter, perhaps time to come to terms with the way forward. Our appointments are no-obligation and we work at the pace our family law clients need.

Louise Martin is Head of Family at Onions & Davies Ltd. She has over 12 years’ experience of family law, including separation and divorce issues, finances and children’s issues. Louise also acts as a Family Mediator and brings a conciliatory approach to her legal cases, combined with a robust handling of the case. She provides clear and helpful guidance, whether this just be at a no-obligation initial appointment, or a contested finances, children matter or domestic violence matter. Call 01630 652405 for an appointment with Louise.

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Unmarried and Separating?

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The law treats those who are unmarried very differently on separation to those who are married.

Unmarried individuals can be disadvantaged. Married couples are granted greater protection, because there is an obligation to split matrimonial assets in accordance with prescribed law. Any matrimonial asset owned by either party will form part of the marital pot and become subject to law when deciding how to divide these assets, whereas unmarried couples do not have access to the same legal treatment.

The Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 focuses on meeting the needs of any children when dividing the assets within financial remedy proceedings.

For cohabiting couples who have separated, we have to look to the civil courts to obtain a resolution where an agreement cannot be reached. We may also advise as to how the Family Court might assist in preserving accommodation and financial provision when there are children involved.

Onions & Davies Solicitors can help avoid any separation issues for unmarried couples in a cohabitation agreement. We can also help you with any relationship breakdown. Please contact our family team on 01630 652405 for a confidential meeting to discuss your situation.

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Are you looking for help during your divorce?

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A divorce can be amicable and can run smoothly if handled with a measure of understanding and an insightful and thorough approach during what can be a difficult time, and in sensitive circumstances. Here is some basic guidance on things to do:

  • Engage in mediation

Mediation can be a quick, affordable and client-led method of conflict resolution, addressing the personal, sensitive matters that arise from your separation. The Family Mediator is an impartial and neutral referee between you and your former partner to help you make the right choices and decisions for you and your family. Our Louise Martin is a trained mediator who would be happy to assist.

  • Provide full financial disclosure

It is the usual practice before a financial agreement can be reached to provide financial disclosure. These details are exchanged with the other party. The Court takes a very dim view of parties dissipating or not disclosing financial assets. Full and frank financial disclosure is required.  We can assist you with what to produce and to prepare your financial disclosure if necessary.

  • The children come first

The Court will always give paramount importance to your children’s well-being when deciding financial matters in a divorce or indeed any contact arrangements after separation. It is essential to think about what is best for your children and put their needs first when going through your divorce.

  • Try and keep the lines of communication open

It is possible to communicate direct with your spouse during your divorce proceedings. Keeping the lines of communication open can be advantageous.  Try to communicate as neutral and open minded as possible. Try to explain reasoning.  This may assist when negotiating a financial settlement.  We understand however, that communication is just not an option in some circumstances and we can help to bridge those gaps.

At Onions & Davies Solicitors, we adopt a conciliatory manner and we endeavour to provide our clients with the best possible advice to reach a fair and reasonable settlement. Please contact our family law team on 01630 652405 or email us at sols@onionsanddavies.co.uk we would be delighted to help you.


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